Most emotional signal is nonverbal, and reading it is a trainable perceptual skill rather than a fixed disposition.
The useful reframe is treating it as perception rather than personality: a signal you can get better at detecting, not a quality you have or lack.
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prerequisite-of →Surface disagreement instead of hiding it — being wrong quietly costs far more than being corrected loudly.Transparency without this is just cruelty with a policy document. A great deal of the criticism of Bridgewater looks like what happens when the mechanism is installed without the competence it silently assumes.